Reed College, meet our Sophie.

Graduation. Sophie with her Sophomore English teacher, Mr. Paul Balazs, one of several teachers instrumental in her scholastic enthusiasm.
Kaiser High 2016 graduation. Sophie with one of her English teachers, Mr. Paul Balazs.

Last week John and I accompanied Sophie to her new school in Portland, Oregon, Reed College. All summer long I have had worst-case scenarios playing in my head. All summer long I tried to hide my anxiety of this 16-year-old girl going off to college. All summer long I tried to come to grips with the possibility that she may never live with us again, unless here for a visit. Life’s passages. Launching a child is, in my opinion, so much harder than launching one’s self. She’ll be 17 in September. I was cool with her skipping first grade. I was a basket case this summer.

Take a look at the photo here at the Reed College website. Sophie is on the right side, fourth student back, in a blue shirt with her left hand held high. That’s my girl and this is the class of 2020.

Picking up her bedding packages from the campus post office.
Picking up her bedding packages from the campus post office.

Last spring, John and Sophie visited colleges across the country. Reed was clearly the best fit and we were thrilled that the school felt the same way about Sophie. It’s a tough school to get into. It’s a small private school with 1,400 undergraduates enrolled. We learned at convocation that the class of 2020 is all in the top 98 percent for ACT scores.

People who know of Reed refer to its beautiful campus, that it is nerd central, a geek domain, a safe haven for students of all stripes. Themed dorms exist for students interested in living with others who share the same interests, such as students of color, gardening and farming, substance free, musically inclined, outdoors enthusiasts. Sophie is in the Woodbridge dorm, aka, the Mad Science dorm. Of course she is.

Parent information meeting in Kaul Auditorium.
Parent information meeting in Kaul Auditorium.

When we were at the orientation events I realized that Sophie was definitely in her element. Nerdiness is coolness. Independent thinking is encouraged. Appreciating the differences in each other broadens their scope. As I observed the other freshmen and their parents, I was comforted in realizing that this will be home for her, this will be her anchor, these students will be her friends, and that she is right where she belongs.

There are four very strong and big swing sets on the Reed campus, one of which is right near Sophie's dorm. Dontcha love it?!?!
There are four very strong and big swing sets on the Reed campus, one of which is right near Sophie’s dorm. Whatever it takes to inspire!

At Reed, It is mandatory for first-year Reedies to take Humanities 110, an intense year-long course where the students read:

  • Aeschylus, The Oresteia, trans. Fagles (Penguin)
  • Anonymous, The Epic of Gilgamesh, trans. George (Penguin)
  • New Oxford Annotated Bible with the Apocrypha, trans. Coogan, et al. (Oxford)
  • Curd, ed., Presocratics Reader: Selected Fragments and Testimonia, trans. McKirahan (Hackett)
  • Freeman, Egypt, Greece and Rome (Oxford)
  • Herodotus, The Histories, trans. Selincourt (Penguin)
  • Hesiod, Theogony and Works and Days, trans. Lombardo (Hackett)
  • Homer, The Iliad, trans. Lattimore (Chicago)
  • Miller, Greek Lyric: An Anthology in Translation (Hackett)
  • The Tale of Sinuhe and Other Ancient Egyptian Poems, trans. Parkinson (Oxford)
  • Sophocles, Sophocles I: Oedipus the King, Oedipus at Colonus, Antigone, trans. Grene and Lattimore (Chicago)
  • Thucydides, The Peloponnesian War, trans. Warner (Penguin)
  • Various Readings on The Ancient Mediterranean and Western Asia available on e-reserves

The Hum110 reading list is designed to stimulate ideas and discussions, inspire the students as they write the required papers, and help them shape and plan their senior theses, the ticket to graduation. While all first-year students have to take this course, they also have to take two other courses for their major. Sophie is taking biology and chemistry. She is also in an orchestra section, as she wants to continue playing her viola.

So many emotions and thoughts that I just cannot share. Not that I want to hide my vulnerabilities, but that it’s important to accept this new stage in our lives. I will admit that when we left her, it was with incredible sadness and the hardest thing I had ever done. Parenthood, while an amazing experience, is life at its best and at its worst. It takes you to the edge. When your child makes the leap to college, you have to be confident in who they have become.

Portland is known as the City of Roses. These big white roses were outside our hotel room. This pic is for Sophie. Bloom, Kiddo!
Portland is known as the City of Roses. These big white roses were outside our hotel room. This pic is for Sophie. Bloom, Kiddo!

You go, Sophie!


Author: lavagal

Hawaii Kai wife and mom. Melanoma Stage 3a Cancer survivor. English Language Learners Coordinator and Paraprofessional Tutor. Super sub teacher. Dormant triathlete. Road cyclist and Masters swimmer. Gardener. Mrs. Fixit. Random dancer. Music Curator. A teenager trapped in an aging body. Did you know 60 is the new 40? It is.

3 thoughts on “Reed College, meet our Sophie.”

  1. Beautiful article but I must say, as someone with a middle school daughter, you are freaking me out a little! Yikes. But I enjoyed reading this. And also learning a bit about Reed College. Your girl will do great, and she’ll always be your girl.

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